Ways for Men to Have Multiple Orgasms

Educational Area: Wellness

Welcome to the Joy Spot. I'm Dr. Joy Davidson. I'm a Health and Science advisory board member, a psychologist, and an AASECT certified sex therapist based in New York. My website is JoyDavidson.com.

You've probably heard -- or discovered to your own delight -- that women can have more than one orgasm during a single love-making session. Sometimes one climax rolls directly into another, sometimes orgasms are separated by a few seconds or minutes. Men often joke about envying women's special capacity for having multiple orgasms. But what many don't know is that they too have the capacity to have orgasm after orgasm without ejaculating and without losing their erection.

We don't know how many men today can have multiple orgasms, because it hasn't been studied much, but word has begun to get out, and as men are learning the techniques that enable them to have these experiences, the numbers are surely growing. Listen closely now, and I'm going to tell you the secret of male multiple orgasm. There are two key points about male multiples to keep in mind:

The first is that male ejaculation and male orgasm are two entirely different bodily processes, and do not have to occur at the same time. This is news to most people, so don't be surprised if you've never heard it. Multiple orgasms are achieved by delaying or avoiding ejaculation, while at the same time, during the course of sexual activity, experiencing what I call dry orgasms -- that is, the sensation of extreme pleasure that we call orgasm, minus the expulsion of fluid or loss of erection. (more)(less)

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